This is the question I thought might be the most interesting, but we came up with very little. I didn’t have anything to include of daughter B’s answer because it was more or less, ‘It hasn’t.’
Q: How as being a stripper changed your attitude to sex?
A: Not sure. I’m probably less excited about sex.
Q: Would it be a bit more of the same? I mean, you’re being sexual to strange men for your work.
A: Theoretically sexual but, you know, I think you can compartmentalise that. So at work I’m not being sexual. I’ve sort of closed that off. It’s like it’s a different part.
Q: So you’re just doing your dance that you know will be sexual to them but doesn’t feel that way to you?
A: It might or might not be sexual to them and I’m not thinking about that. It’s like, I don’t want to think about that, so I don’t. Yeah, it’s weird. I think now, because I’m a stripper and I have been for a while, there’s this idea that I’m supposed to be really open about sex. You know, you tell someone you’re a stripper and they start talking to you about Club Xs and all that sort of thing, you know, sex shops. And, because I hate feeling like I’m supposed to do anything, I’ve got a bit of the opposite, so now I’m really not that into being open about sex. Because I’m supposed to be. But I’m not sure if that has actually changed or if it’s just the way I always was. But there is a bit of that, yeah. Like guys sort of expect that. I’m not sure if I can handle it though. ‘Cos, you know, I’ve always hated it when people think I should do something because I just should.
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